Thursday, April 18, 2013
The Waiting Game
While in some situations it’s polite to text your crush, other times it’s best to fight the urge and wait for your crush to text you first. This will not only even out the playing field and make sure that one person isn’t putting in all the effort, but it will also show you that your crush feels the same way about you.
Don’t Act Clingy
Constant messages or phone calls asking your crush about his or her whereabouts or current activity will come across as clingy and overbearing, as will sending repeat messages deliberately because you have not received a reply. Sometimes it’s best to accept that you are not in control of another person, only yourself!
Embrace the Face
Smiley faces and winks are great to use when texting your crush because it shows that you are a friendly and happy person. This will make your crush enjoy texting you, as well as receiving messages from you, because of your positive energy.
Thursday, January 24, 2013
Thursday, January 24, 2013
Blogging on tumblr is like a walk in a park. Everything is made easy for its users, from viewing posts of the blogs you follow to posting new stuff and managing them. In fact, everything you need is laid for you right in your dashboard.
But would you believe me if there are 6 shortcut keys that can make that easy even easier? 6 Shortcut keys you might not know of
1. Open Quick Interaction Menu
Ask, Fan Mail and even UNFOLLOW directly from your dashboard.
2. Reblog A Post Instantly Without Leaving Your Dash
You want to reblog a post but you don’t want to leave your dashboard? Now you can. Just hold alt key + click the reblog button for windows or hold cmd + click reblog button for mac. Once the button is marked as green, then the post is successfully reblogged!
3. Time Posted
Want to know what time a blog post was posted? Now you can, just simply hover your mouse pointer to the upper right corner of a post. A bubble will appear with the info
Sunday, January 20, 2013
1. The club.
The club is meant for throwing up vodka Red Bulls in a bathroom stall while crying. The club is meant for giving the side-eye to hair-gelled assholes in the corner getting bottle service at their table. It’s for dancing to David Guetta and/or Pitbull songs and grinding your genitals against a stranger until your friends pull you away because they’re afraid you’re going to get herpes through your jeans. The club is meant for everything but finding lasting love, and we shouldn’t ask of it things it cannot provide.
2. At your ex’s place.
Don’t go back there. There is nothing for you. There is no magic end to this story wherein, after seventeen break-up-to-make-ups, you go over to your ex’s apartment (in the rain, of course) and suddenly have a Nicholas Sparks-esque Reuniting Moment in their foyer while you tell each other all of the things you did wrong and lick tears off each other’s faces. No. You’re just going to break up again. We like going back to the ex because it’s familiar, and easy, and it’s possible that the sex is bangin. But we cannot get swayed by these cheap ideals because they are ultimately unfulfilling, and if it didn’t work the first ten times, it’s not working now.
I’m sure we’ve all had a moment where we found a friend of a friend — perhaps from popping up on our “recommended” sidebar, perhaps just from thorough creeping — and we briefly fell in love. We may have met them once or twice (not sure, though), and can see enough of their profile to ascertain that they are beautiful and don’t seem like a serial killer. But there is no way to open this conversation. There is no way to go from “basically strangers” to “date night” via Facebook. At some point, you’re going to have to look like an insane person and initiate conversation at random. It’s just not worth it.
Friday, January 18, 2013
Here are tips from experts on which messages you should respond to—and which you should ignore for your own good.
Dating coach Adam LoDolce calls this random text (which can also come in the form of “sup” or “yo”) the “weak attempt.” Yes, the guy’s thinking about you, but he’s not thinking hard enough. Text back if you like him, but don’t bother if you’re not sure about him.
“Where you at?”
If you get this message on a Friday or Saturday night, it’s likely that the guy is hitting you up as a last resort.
“Can I come over?”
This is the “I’m drunk and horny” text, LoDolce says, and is typically sent after midnight on a weekend night. Don’t respond unless you’re equally down for a booty call.
“Want to meet up later?”
If a guy sends you this message before 8 p.m., it shows he’s being proactive in his attempt to see you, LoDolce says. But, if all he does is text you, and you want to see some more effort, tell him you prefer to talk on the phone. “This will separate the guys who want a relationship from the ones who don’t,” he says. “If he calls, it’s a fair assumption that he’s interested in something more than just a booty call.”