Sunday, June 17, 2012
Anonymous asked: What if I’m friends with the guy I like but not close friends? would that make it awkward if I told him how I felt?
The Love Whisperer: At some point it could be easier, why? Because being really close with someone as bestfriends is already a built relationship itself, and if you wanted more then you may find it hard to break into the walls of bestfriend relationship. But if you are friends with him but not really close, I think it may be easier than the later.
themissingprincess asked: What would you do if you fell in love with your best friend but for him, a person shouldn’t have a relationship with his/her best friend? :(
The Love Whisper: If that is his belief, I am afraid, you may have to respect that ‘cause otherwise, if you are his bestfriend, he may felt betrayed. But you know, you can take it slow, make it obvious step by step that you like him. Who knows, you might get through his walls.
Anonymous asked: how are you recently? :)
Anonymous asked: How is your day so far? I hope you feel better soon :)
The Love Whisperer: Thank you for asking. Life is hard but I am hoping for the best. I can’t say that I am sad, but I am not happy as well. It’s a mixture of both and I can only hope for the best.
Anonymous asked: hi, i just wanted to ask what you thought about this situation i was in. i was with my boyfriend and we were talking about clubbing and i asked what he thought of it, and he replied with how he didn’t really like it much and he usually just “sits at the bar and drinks and picks up chicks”. i was just rather bothered by it because he was so calm when he said it and at first, i thought he was joking but he never said he was so i’m not too sure. should i just confront him?
The Love Whisperer: If you two got into a club and he did this right in front of your face then you should be bothered. But if he is not then he is just being honest with you about his past. The important thing is now. Worrying too much will just lead to problems.
ocha88 asked you: why do i feel jealous towards my bf ex crush? i feel that shes pretty than me. I know i should have more self confidence, but its just hard. what should i do?
The Love Whisperer: As humans, it is normal to feel this way. I mean, we may feel inferior of what our partners had before, we may try to compare ourselves with them and we may feel this way but remember who is he choosing, well chosen right now. It is you, not her. Now focus on self improvement.
Anonymous asked: Do u have sex with your Boyf often? :)
The Love Whisperer: I felt really sad about this. I mean, I give advice and all, and hoping that I get respect in return but no. This is what I got. I will try to answer more questions tomorrow. :(