The Love Whisperer
The truth is I cannot give every answers to love problems you all have, you throw me on my formspring and tumblr ask because mine as well is going down the drain. I don’t have this perfect life, I’m struggling. I am sick and tired of falling in love and falling apart. Right now I would trade anything just to feel nothing. I’m tired.
Say anything? Throw me some words. I’m feeling alone.
I think as much as it’s useful, necessary even, for her to have someone to confide in right now and he chose you. I mean, by that alone you can already say that you mean something for her. The question would be, does she loves you the way you love her? Gestures are gestures, chances are people may misinterpret them. What is love gesture for you may just be a friend gesture for the other. You haven’t told her right, The way you really feel about her? And also you keep on telling her to fix things with his boyfriend and that things would get better, which is a good thing by the way; it only means that you respect her being in a relationship right now but do you think you are giving her mixed signals as well? By that, maybe she sees you just a friend, someone who will always be there, someone to confide with. You have questions left unanswered, that is the problem and it makes things difficult for you. But maybe this is not the right time for questioning, she has her own set of problems with her family, just let her fix things for her this time and maybe when things get better why wait? you can just grab her, invite for a little talk and then tell her everything, then you can decide.
How do you know it can’t get any further? If you haven’t yet, tell him what you feel, what you really feel and also when someone truly loves you, you can feel that and there’s no question about it. It can’t be totally told in words but you can tell by the way he acts around you. But if you kept asking and prompting this man to say how he feels about you, and he keeps going back and forth with his answer, chances are he doesn’t love you, or he loves himself more! He’s just keeping you around until he feels someone “better” may come along. As an outsider this is easy for me to say and i feel bad saying it as its so clear you adore him. You have these choices and eventually, you have to choose what is best for you. You are best yourself, don’t let anyone to waste your life and your heart.
I just woke up and read this. thanks, I’ve been hearing you around so I’m actually happy when you followed me. In my case, I figured it out. The more followers you have, the careful you are on your posts and the less personal it is. siguro i’ll try na mag random rant din minsan haha.
@kidaokagee - I also read your reply, sasabihin ko sana ate ghing, kaso 20 ka na din pala and no, I haven’t gone into any of the meet ups before, I’m not from manila or anywhere near manila kaya yun. thanks din.
good morning.
